First dates are often a mixture of excitement, nervousness, and the unknown. They can set the tone for a potential romance and shape whether it blossoms into something promising or ends abruptly due to unexpected experiences. In particular, the world of online dating opens up a huge number of possibilities and brings together individuals who might not otherwise have crossed paths.
In these Reddit stories, users openly share their worst first date encounters, highlighting moments of danger, embarrassment, and sheer unpredictability. These stories serve as cautionary reminders of the roller coaster ride that dating can be, especially when you first meet someone.
A first date can be the deciding factor in whether a potential romance has a bright future or ends abruptly. Five Redditors talked about their worst first dates and how they ended up in danger or embarrassing themselves.
A first date brings with it a mixture of anxious anticipation, excitement, and sometimes unexpected results. In particular, online dating, with its endless possibilities, brings together individuals who might not otherwise have met.
But it also enables different sensations, from unpleasant to downright strange. Several Reddit users live-streamed their worst first date experiences by sharing insights into their disastrous dating experiences.
One user recounted a particularly remarkable interaction with a man who initially seemed nice to them but then showed an oddity that was hard to ignore. She revealed that she arranged to meet her date in person through the online dating site OKCupid.
But he kept interrupting her on their date, so she confronted him about his lack of focus in his answers. Finally, I ask him, ‘Do you want to hear something I have to say?'” The individual wrote, “He apologizes tearfully and says, ‘[You’re] right, I’m so sorry!’ and pulls out a pad of paper and a pen.”
While she was talking, he started taking notes.
He told her he was writing a list of things he wanted to say to her when it was his turn when she finally asked what he was writing.
She gave him another chance, but it didn’t work out.
Despite her aversion to arithmetic and lack of interest in music, as evidenced by the hundreds of pi decimal places on the CD cover, he even burned her a CD of his favorite songs.
Another Redditor described her date as something out of an action movie gone wrong. A woman described how her date’s careless driving led to a car accident, making an otherwise simple trip dangerous.
“Our first destination was closed when we arrived. I said, ‘Hooks and bowling,’ when he asked where I wanted to go. I know, right here, make it tasteful,” the woman said. An interesting development occurred when her father warned her before leaving the house to “be careful and if you can’t drive, get out of the car.” Her date was a dodgy driver.
To make matters worse, the date’s brakes failed until they hit the back of the truck. As if the incident wasn’t disturbing enough, her date left the scene and admitted he had a warrant out for his arrest.
The man cried as he ran, “I’m really sorry, I can’t afford to go to jail again.”
The date was memorable for all the wrong reasons, leaving her stranded and even missing out on the Hooters and wings that were planned. She was left to deal with the aftermath and the police on her own. She eventually told the police all the man’s information. She even used a police car to take a picture, which she then shared on Facebook and tagged her date in it.
The third story showed how soon one’s true nature can be revealed. This Reddit member met a woman at a coffee shop after work to exchange phones after they accidentally swapped them.
“As I approach, I notice this adorable red-haired woman dressed in a suit. After a short conversation, I learned that she works at a bank, likes my taste in music, and would be more than happy to have dinner with me this weekend.”.
But when the weekend came, someone completely different got into the car for the date. The first indication that this was not going to be an ordinary evening was the striking transformation of the woman from their first meeting to their date.
The banker sported slicked-back hair, fishnet stockings, a corset top, and four-inch platform shoes. He also seemed to have a strong sense of humor. What started as a jovial banter turned into a nightmare when she aired her deeply biased views in a sophisticated pub.
A Reddit user was horrified to see her make offensive remarks about a waiter based on his race when they arrived. Because she was disrespectful to the server, she even looked at the food as if she believed he could do something with it.
Feeling terrible about how his date was behaving, the individual apologized to the waitress. One felt a little better because the waiter was kind about it. Still pretending nothing was wrong, Rande suggested more plans after dinner. Instead, after she mentioned that they should go out again, the Reddit member rushed her home and was raring to go.
Another Reddit user pointed out that getting a date from OkCupid can be uncomfortable. The user claims that his date didn’t look like her profile when he saw her in person. However, the fact that she did not go alone added to the unique nature of the occasion. She brought another friend, her friend’s child, and her sixteen-year-old friend.
The young man was given an energy drink and sprayed sugar from the restaurant all over the table, causing the restaurant environment to quickly turn into chaos. The three girls failed to engage Reddit users in the discussion, making the situation even worse.
With a quiet exit and a decent tip left over for the server, the date ended.
The existence of the clown school was discovered through a fifth share on Reddit. In the middle of their first meeting, the man started a conversation to learn more about each other, asking his partner about her career and whether she was happy in her field.
She also pulled out a red clown nose and wore it to show that she was going to clown school. It was their first date and they both probably wanted to make a good impression, so the news was shocking.
These Reddit stories highlight the unpredictable nature of first dates, showcasing a range of experiences from the awkward to the downright dangerous. Each story reveals the unexpected twists and turns that can happen when meeting someone for the first time, whether through online dating platforms like OKCupid or random encounters.
From encounters with overzealous note-takers to car accidents and abusive behavior, these stories serve as cautionary reminders of the importance of remaining vigilant and setting boundaries during first encounters. They also demonstrate the resilience and quick thinking of the individuals involved who navigated challenging situations with varying degrees of success.
In conclusion, while first dates can be an exciting opportunity to connect with new people, they can also present unforeseen challenges. These stories serve as a reminder to approach dating with a combination of optimism and caution, always prioritizing safety and respect for yourself and others.