In the world of parenting, discipline is a hot topic these days and has changed significantly over the last century. Physical discipline used to be the norm, but as people got older and started to really “research early childhood development and psychology” it was almost universally accepted that hitting our children was wrong, or at least that it usually did more harm than good. Almost everyone agreed that hitting our children was wrong, or at least that it tended to do more harm than good. While some parents still battle the larger scientific community on this particular issue, many others have begun to explore other options to find the best ways to instill values in psychology. While some parents still struggle with the larger scientific community on this particular topic, many others have begun to explore alternative options to find the most effective ways to raise morals and correct wrongs in their children.
One such thing that has become increasingly popular in the last ten to fifteen years is public humiliation. Parents have been known to force their angry teenagers to hold signs while standing in public corners. Parents have been observed filming their children, breaking toys, or shaving children’s heads. There have been many photos circulating of parents packing up their children’s belongings and preparing them for the trash.
The internet is officially divided over Amanda Mitchell’s choice of discipline after learning her daughter was playing at school. Amanda Mitchell is a mother from Newfoundland, Canada, who decided that spanking was not the best way to get through to her daughter. However, she decided to share her decision on Facebook. Look at that!
That’s not what I usually do.
Amanda warned her friends and family at the start of her post that this was going to be a big post.
Hannah
Amanda’s daughter was behaving in a way that was not typical of her family.
The little… hole that is mom?
Most parents have at least considered it, although not all of us express our opinions online.
Mom’s teenage fix
This is when things get interesting.
derision
When a parent who berates everyone on social media is laughing at the backlash against positive parenting methods, you know things are about to get weird.
Then she drops her mother’s hammer.
Fifty times!
“..we don’t act like a-holes.”
Write it down, kid!
Amanda also added photos of her daughter’s new residence.
including a bedroom stripped of all joy.
Undecorated wardrobes
Don’t wear anything attractive.
pre-selected clothes.
I am sorry; I had one outfit planned.
But others managed to reach a compromise where the punishment had no meaning at all, but bragging on social media. Low-hanging fruit.
Navigating the landscape of parenting and discipline can be a daunting task, especially with evolving societal norms and changing views of what constitutes effective discipline. In the past, physical punishment was commonplace, but as our understanding of child psychology has deepened, many have become aware of the harmful effects of such methods. Amanda Mitchell’s unconventional approach to disciplining her daughter has sparked a heated debate online, highlighting the different opinions and approaches within the parenting community.
While public humiliation and extreme disciplinary measures may seem like quick fixes to behavior problems, they often fail to address the underlying causes and can potentially cause lasting emotional harm to children. Amanda’s decision to share her disciplining approach on social media serves as a reminder of the power and pitfalls of online platforms where parenting choices are explored and debated by a global audience.
As we continue to navigate the complexities of parenting, it is essential to prioritize empathy, communication, and understanding when disciplining our children. Rather than resorting to punitive measures, fostering a supportive and nurturing environment can help children learn and grow in healthy and respectful ways. Ultimately, each family must find an approach that aligns with their values and promotes the well-being of their children, while being mindful of the broader societal impact of their actions.